Hi, I am new to this post, I am also trying to get pregnant again after having a M/C 2/18/08. I am trying for a girl as well since I have 2 boys. I am charting my cycle, doing BBT, and using the clear blue easy fertility monitor. I have read your threads & u mention cranberry? Does this help with something. I read Dr Shettles book. I got peak fertility today on my monitor. Which means it detected LH surge at 4am this morning. Not sure when I O from there though. I had mittlesch-pinching cramps yesterday & today and my temp went up this am too . Last time my husband & I BD was last Sat about 10pm. I hope that wasn't to long ago. How long can sperm live anyway? I hope it is all good since this is 3 days from then 4 tomarrow. I appreciate any suggestions or advice. Thank you and I wish you all the best as well.