Also I just wanted to add, Getting in and out of the store is alot like the "helping" with the shopping cart. I have them "help" me carry baby in, if I am using the carseat. They "help" me carry the baby in, hanging onto the handle of the carrier. Otherwise I put baby in the sling b/f getting them out of their seat, and I hold thier hand, or they hold my pocket of my pants.

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