My DH is just like his dad who was also an absentee father emotionally, physically and mentally. I am also to blame for his bad father behavior and have to hear it on a weekly basis. I wish I didnt have to deal with him. I think eventually the contact will be less and less as it is now it is only once a week if that. I am a total loser magnet and am trying to make sure I dont make that mistake again.

How do you make sure your boys grow up different? I am so scared my son will be like his dad because of genetics.

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