I didn't change with my first one and wish I had. She was ok buut I wish I had used a midwife like I wanted. So I used a midwife after that. This time, I didn't like where I was originally. I found out there was a new midwife somewhere else and I am SO glad I did. I think it is VERY important to get someone you trust and feel like you are getting information from. You can also look up things online...if you aren't sure. For example- if you want to have a natural birth without drugs you can find whatever you need. Or if you are wanting to try to have a VBAC (vag birth after cesearean) Just giving examples...but you need to be proactive in your care. It's for you and your baby. That is the MOST important.

It may be late, but I think you will be happier in the long run if you find someone you like.

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Francine mom to 3 awesome boys~Keiran 2/18/01 Aidan 11/14/02 (water birth)Breylan 5/02/05(water birth)
and and Hunter Grayce~born 6/7/2008 7 lbs 6 oz, a fabulous water birth
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The day you deliver, outside will be warm. Your baby will arrive in the evening.After a labor lasting approximately 5 hours, your child, a girl, will be born. Your baby will weigh about 8 pounds, 15 ounces, and will be 17-1/2 inches long. This child will have blue eyes and dark hair.