hematite153 - welcome. glad you are here!
M~ wow, I didn't realize things were not good. I am sorry about that.
This is my second marriage. I never want to relive my divorce years. YUCK!
Glad your DH decided to join you in counseling.
My other WOW this week is truly realizing that even though my DH and I have been through so much, it could be so much worse. I have been living a "whoa is me" kind of pity party watching all these people that got married after us having one then another baby and it just broke my heart and it was really hard to be happy for them. Finally, I think I can be. Life isn't just about babies, however that is what I have let it become. I kind of missed the beautiful scenery for a while and I am ready to step back and smell the roses.
Corny, Yeah...I know.