I wouldn't worry too much. I've been at 3 cm for a week at least, and still not in labor! As far as the NICU goes, I haven't had any experience, but will this time around. Most times I think they just put them in there for close observation if there is any risk of problems. My situatiomn is much different than anyone else's tho, so what happens in my case won't be relevant to you. Good luck!

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