I am in Raleigh. I've been to New Bern for work, when I used to work.
As for your trigger and BD, I'm going off what my doc tells me to do and mine are usually smaller. If you don't have a male factor, I'd suggest tonight as well just in case you O early. (Which is known to happen!)
I go for my u/s on Monday morning and they will probably tell me to trigger that night and then BD the following two nights. Last month was my first month and they triggered me in the am (since it was my first time and I didn't want to give myself a shot) and then told me BD the following two nights. I didn't listen very well though and BD the night of and the following night. I just read so much about how it is better to have the sperm there waiting than to try to get it there at the same time or later. I think this month I'll BD starting tonight until next Wed, but I have a feeling my DH is the problem and not me. (He won't test!)

GOOD LUCK> I'll be right around the corner in the 2WW with you!

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