You have to plan it...just like you plan your day! I know it sounds hoaky...but it really works!! Try it!

I also think if you are involved in a church find out if they have Couples night out...This was our main issue...we moved...and no family is near-by and finding a sitter in a city where you know no one can be scary...Our church as a weekly Couples bible class for an hour...and then you get an hour after that with FREE childcare to go out to dinner...or home for a quickie...LOL...It is so worth it!

Also remember it is HEALTHY for your children to see Mommy and Daddy hug...and give smooches, sit next to each other on the couch...etc...You are paving the way for any intimate relationships they have when they grow up!! Don't blow it...lol...I know...Its a lot of pressure being a roll model!

Hugs!
btw I am a newbie here...and SO excited to be a part of this forum...

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