You say cutting all ties would be too much for her, but at the same time she is okay with going and marrying someone other than you without your feelings being much of the factoring process I would assume. As hard as it might e to do the only way to really get over something such as this is to move on in my opinion. Sure it's super easy for me to say I'm not involved... but I think it might be in your best interest to do so. Just start by limiting the calls to once a week then every other week and so forth.

Good luck!

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