Hi, I am new here and I am about to have my second child....just shy of thriteen months of my first.
I'm not nervous about the birth (I will be having a c-section because I had to have one with my son) I am nervous about my son. It has been just us all this time and we have such a good bond I just wonder how is going to take it, epescially because he is so young that I can't really explain what is going on.
We have never been apart for more than an hour and that is usually with Daddy, now when my little girl is born I'll be in the hospital for three days. Although we intend for his dad to spend the night with him, he will be spending the day with his aunt or grandma and not to mention he is use to me doing everything. Then I worry how I am going to handle it, I already feel guilty that I won't be able to spend time with him like I usually do and then I feel guilty because I feel guilty, like it's taking away something from my daughter...
So, I don't know if it's the whole pregnancy hormones kicking in here or if I am justly worried....any advice on this transition would be ever so helpful
