one of the biggest things that bother me the most is when people judge other people by how they look instead of what is on the inside. for instance when someone is very overweight people assume that your big because you eat like a pig. not always true sometimes it is but not always. sometimes it is medications (prednisone), or it could be an illness (congestive heart failure) there are many reasons and as the saying goes to assume makes an a_ _ out of u and me.