Hi,

I am going through something similar. I am 6 months pregnant with our 2nd child. My husband told me 3 weeks ago that he doesn't love me anymore and wants to separate. Our daughter is 2 years old. I have spent a lot of time crying and not sure what to do. I guess I can't do anything- he doesn't want to go for counselling. I didn't know anything was wrong- we have been married for 3 1/2 years, together for 8 and we rarely fight- have always been best friends.

I never in a million years thought this would happen to us- I thought we were happy. He still says I did nothing wrong, I was the perfect wife and his best friend, he just isn't in love with me and he doesn't think it is fair to either of us for him to stay.

He is moving out in 1 month- already has an apartment. He has already started the separation agreement, so before I deliver, I will have to get a lawyer, go through a separation, look after a two year old by myself, change of ownership on assets, etc.

any advice????