Nik- I guess everyone has their own way of explaining things to children. My way has always been "honesty is the best policy". As long as the child knows that he/she was wanted more than anything else in the world and was loved even before it was known that he/she was even a bean in your belly then I believe things will be fine. Children are always smarter than we give them credit for. I will say this, I would rather have to tell my child that he/she was conceived using a donor than to have to say I don't know where your father is...but that's just my opinion. Lots of children have fathers and still can't reach out and touch them. If you have one loving parent you are the most blessed person in the world and if you have two (no matter what gender) well I guess you should just be over the moon that those two people would give their own life to make the world a better place to grow up in.

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Tasha-26yrs old

9 Cycles
HSG results 2/05/08 (Clear )
Starting IVF in September