I think that at your age you might be better off going to a dr. I know it can take longer once you have past the 35yrs mark, and a dr will be able to d test to make sure that everything is in working order and you will probably get pregnant faster. Thats not to say that home Insem would not work for you, just that it would probably be quicker through a dr.
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