I didn't have a problem cosleeping with my older two, who are two years and nine months apart, but I'm afraid cooper1414 hit the nail on the head about the reason why. I would not recommend having the newborn sleep separately. ds2 was a modified lotus birth and would wake and cry IMMEDIATELY if I got out of bed to pee and left him alone while the placenta was still attached.

Between cosleeping and babywearing, he really doesn't cry very much and I honestly haven't slept this well in months, if not years! I lose more sleep worrying about his teenaged brother, lol.

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