Those of you with MF issues.....Did you set a limit of how many times you would try some type of assited technology before you quit putting your money in that area? I'm getting ready to start my first IVF the end of January & I just wonder how many times we will venture down this road. It feels like gambling - which I don't normally do! I have heard others say we should set a limit before we start. My husband & I have said that we would do 2 cycles this year & then we just have to see….how about all of you? Have you had these discussions with your partners?

How do you know when to say when & when to keep trying? Those of you who have gone through more than one IVF – has your doctor recommended this?

I am trying so hard to be optimistic though. . .as my doctor says - guarded optimism.

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Me - 30
DH - 33
DS - 4
TTC#2
M/C January 2007
IVF #1 - chem. preg Jan. 2008, 2 embryos on ice
FET 5/23/08 - transferred 2
beta #1 - 5/31 (8dpt) - 54
beta #2 - 6/2 (10dpt) - 161
beta #3 - 6/9 - (17dpt) - 3,397
6 wks. 5 days - 117 bpm, 7 wks. 4 days in the 150's