Not that I agree with this guys thoughts at all.

But having lived and living through my second seperation from my husband of 15 years married, 23 total years together......... both seperations took place when our twins were 5 months and our latest son was 6 months old ........... I see a pattern here anyone else.......when he felt abandonded he claims "I just am not in love wit hyou anymore. WTF??? Ok so make love to me one week and the following week your out of love with me AGAIN!!! I mean come on I thought you were 100% on board with me breast feeding our child!!! But I guess I'm the selfish one who wanted to bf as I should have bottle fed our children worked a full day (sole profider here) cleaned the house and cooked and still somewhere in my sleep deprevation lack of coffee state of feeding our sons 2, 3 or 5 hour stretches been able to hold a conversation and nookie with out drooling on myself, you or babbling sweet baby talk to him....................... yes there are some great guys that turn in to selfish idiots when you insert children!

I married the KING!!!

Ok I'm done, sorry!

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