I'm sorry KEL!!! HOLY COW INSENSITIVE!! I'd say something to them.. I think ?? I try to keep things to myself but that's a very sensitive subject.. so I totally understand.
I'm sorry you have to deal with people like that
I had a rough day at work too.. nothing like yours but had a pregnant female soldier that stated she had an abortion last week

talk about DEPRESSING!! I was LIVID and couldn't deal with her! I had to walk away!! (TEARS IN EYES!!)
Don't blame you with calling in either!