Sorry no one has responded to you. You're in a tough situation on one hand I can understand him wanting to sleep with you, but on the other I completely understand why he needs to be in his own bed. How long has his dad been gone? How old is he? This is definitely a personal decision. My oldest slept with me until he was 9, thats when I had twins. He is 14 now and I tease him that he would still be sleeping with me if the twins were never born. He is like....ahh no way, mom! What have you tried so far?

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