Wow. I would have to agree with all of the ladies. We all know the feeling of wanting a baby so badly but miracle and joy of that miracle is certainly compromised when your partner is basically being lied to. I'm sorry if that sounds harsh but it is very unfair to him. And as the other girls have said...extremely dangerous for the baby.

Your hormones need to be in pretty much perfect balance to sustain a healthy pregnancy and periodically taking BCP certainly causes your hormones to be everything but in balance.

Also...bcp work in two ways. As said before, they cause your body not to ovulate. But also, in the very unlikely event that you do ovulate and the egg is fertilized the BCP thin to uterine lining so that the fertilized egg cannot implant.

This is a very risky situation for you, DP, and certainly any pregancy that you may conceive.

I really do wish you the best of luck. I agree with Lindsay completely. First stop the BCP, if your period doesn't come take a test. I suspect it will be neg. If it is you should get back on the pill and take it properly. Talk to DP and express your desires. And certainly if you are preg. tell your doctor about taking the pill.

Good Luck to you.

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