Congratulations, glad everything is looking good! I have a close friend with twins, a boy and a girl, and yes of course its hard (having one baby is hard, duh!!!) but let me tell you...hers are 4 now and she has it made. They go to preschool together, they play together, they eat together, they go to bed at the same time, etc. Whereas here I am with two of different ages, one in school, one not, one eats at this time, one at another, and so on, not to mention that mine both want to play with me all the time and they are 1 and 3 so their interests are completely different! I wish I would have had twins, seriously! They have the best time together, those two, and even better, he is into her stuff and she is into his so they are very well rounded kids. I just can't believe people are so rude to you, good for you for putting them in their place

Monica