Welcome to sheknows Charlotte!
I am very sorry about your loss. There is a board on here for ladies that are TTC- after loss. Here is the link...
http://talk.sheknows.com/forumdispla...sprune=-1&f=57
I would try not to listen to those people that may have opinions about you wanting another child. If that is what you both want then more power to you!
(sorry, i just had an issue today with someone that seemed to think that just b/c their family does something a certain way it means it should be like that for everyone)
How long have you been ttc this time? Do you chart?