Thanks everyone - I needed to hear those things. You know, logically I know that it is all true - I was just scared.
Kris & Tkeys - Thanks for taking to time to talk me down & cheer me up. You all had such wonderful things to say.
Nicole, I really appreciate your perspective as an adoptee. My neice (who is now a mom herself) is also adopted and I know in her heart she has no other mother than my sister.