Max- Welcome! You have definately come to the right place for support! I'm glad you found us!
I know how frustrating it can be. I also was diagnosed with PCOS, and I did not have that many of the tell tell signs either, the BEST way to know if you have PCOS is through an androl (sp) folical count. Did your doctor count your follies after a period and before putting you on any drugs? If so and you had more then like 8-10 (I think, number could be off slightly) then you are PCOS regardless of your other symptoms or lack there of. But there is definately hope for PCOS. (take a look at my siggy

for me too!)
Just know that you ARE doing everything right and you will get your baby one way or the other.