Re: breastfeeding question
This suggestion may not quite answer your question, but I hope it's useful anyway. If you happen to have some, get out photos of you breastfeeding the older kids. That way they are less likely to see it as special treatment for the baby that they are missing out on.
They probably will learn that you're less likely to come and discipline them while you're nursing (the same would apply to bottle feeding though) so maybe try to have something for them to do at feeding time. Best wishes.
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