hi! im new to all this. im not sure where exactly to post this, so i guess i will start here, i know i ovulated, i felt it, thats the only thing i am sure of. im 36 and not trying to conceive, not that it would be a bad thing, ok this is whats going on. i have never really monitored my o time. i had a really bad cyst in feb so i started monitoring my cycles more to have some kind of idea after i spotted and thought i was pg after having numerous symptoms. the cyst ruptured (OWWWWW!!!!) and i went back to normal. so me and my friend you know one of those lover friends(we care about eachother just dont know if we are right for eachother) got a little too drunk (i had alot going and i needed to unwind, didnt mean to get that drunk)and hooked up, now the thing is, he didnt finish inside me, but i know that there is a chance of leakage in preejaculate.(im really not trying to sound stupid lol!). i just dont know how much of a chance. i didnt even realize it until i felt the ovulating the next day and looked it up online when i was suppose to that i had sex on my most fertile day before i ovulated. weird stuff has really been going on and im not sure what to think, and after that horrible cyst issue im trying to get ahead of myself with these symptoms. 3dpo friday, very tired, stayed in and slept, started having cramping and nausea, sore boobs and i thought was a migrane headache,4dpo was awful cramps hit really hard, so hard i had to lay down. i had stabbing pains in my sides and twinges that went away, nausea, sore nipples,really really tired, craving mcdonalds hot fudge sundae as i am now. i stayed in and slept, woke up around 330 am or so when roomie got home and felt like i was gonna throw up he got me some pop and i felt a little bit better went back to sleep. so now today dpo5, woke up nausous,cramps were insane, felt like someone put a brick on my abdomen, i am big time bloated.very very moody, and emotional, its been from one aspect to another first im ready to hit someone then i hold my macaw and i want to cry cuz i love her so much. i decided to stay home instead of going to familys cuz i have been so irritable, im very tired, as i am typing this its not nearly as bad as it was before, the cramping has calmed down, it does feel like the first day af cramps though, and i have a wet creamy cm, i was itchy yesterday down there but now im not anymore. oh i have been having a runny nose on and off and some gas and really bad indigestion that pepto bismal helped, that really hurt. it feels different then the cyst other than the pressure on my abdomen. i got the symptoms after i spotted for my period. my period is due on the 17th. could these be pms symptoms just worse then normal? is there a chance i could be pg? i need some advice!