Re: If your DH cheated..
I'm not sure what I would do.
Before kids- he would be out on his a$$ no questions asked
Since having kids- I think I would like to try to make it work but it would really depend on the "circumstances".
If I found out from someone else I don't think I could forgive him. I would not only be dealing w/ the cheating thing but also the humiliation of everyone else knowing before me...and is he going to stop only because he got caught.
If he came to tell me what had happened...expressed remorse...swore never to do it again...I would try to make it work. Unfortunately I'm not so sure how well I could handle every having sex with him again knowing what I know. The trust thing might never completely come back, and he would have to agree to the fact that his a$$ is mine and must earn my trust back on my terms or it would be over.
In an ideal world: if he did it once, swore to himself never to do it again (and didn't)...I would prefer to live in blissful ignorance.
Unfortunately we don't live in a perfect world.
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