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momnid · #4 (**permalink**) 02-05-2007, 08:24 PM

I was in a 9 year relationship, not married, but we lived together and he cheated numerous times. He always told me he would not do it again, but he did over and over. I was naive and young, and believed him every time. I loved him and thought he was all the best man in the world. He got to blaming it on his job, he was a professional baseball player, and blamed it on us being apart when his team would go on the road etc. I finally woke up one day and ended the relationship. Once a cheater, always a cheater.
That said, I would not forgive my DH and he would be out the door in a heartbeat. I don't see myself feeling differently, if, God forbid, I ws ever actually put in that situation, based on my previous experience in a cheating relationship.