I have known many woman who have found out thru an outside source and forgave their dh's. I just think, if you did not find out, would they stop. Doubt it. If it was a one time thing and your dh told you, I could see how some woman would forgive. I am, however, not one. If you are married, there is no reason to ever put yourself in any situation like that.

I have not been it ANY situation like this, so if it actually happened, things may be different. That is what some of these woman have told me anyway. As far as now, I would say leave.

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