your house is getting over run with testosterone eh I am also trying for a girl this time around. I have not bought a monitor or opk test strips, I am temping to judge o time. I know that I am fairly regular with when I O so I am going to BD for a couple days and then stop 2 days before O. If you do not know when you O at all or if your O day is never regular I would get some OPK test strips to help pinpoint which day you O so you can time things. If you are not looking to ttc for a couple months yet, you could temp for 2-3 months to get a feel of your bodiy's cycle and O time and then time things the month you start ttc on those charts. kwim

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