Hi, Jenny! I know it is a hard decision. Personally I feel like I will never regret having another child, God willing. Everything else passes but our children are with us forever. Sometimes I feel funny when I am the only older mom with young kids. Everyone else I know my age is done and has older kids, etc. That is why it is so nice to have the support from other people doing the same thing. I think the older kids get alot out of having lots of siblings. I realize there are alot of pros and cons but I am really focusing on the pros If dh would give the okay, I would probably have a few more, but as it is I am praying for at least one more. My legs are in bad shape (varicose veins) but so far that is the only health concern I face, except for ama. We don't have alot of money or room or anything. I don't know if that helps or not.

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