The courts can't protect a right that many fathers throw away (like your DH). It destabilizes the responsible family the child(ren) does have.

You know, I do know somebody who lives in a state with similar laws....her ex is a drunkard, stoner, who rarely if ever pays child support. Yet, he's allowed to walk all over the mother, her plans, and ultimately their child because the court is "protecting his rights". Who's protecting the child when the courts tie the responsible parents hands?

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Dear Jacquie,
You were right about everything.
-Jacie