Thanks everyone! The bed moves went really well, miracle of miracles, Gabe actually seems to prefer the big bed and has been sleeping better - still getting up about 5.30am though Thea took to the cot too but honestly I think that girl would sleep anywhere

Amanda, still no tandem and thankfully the inlaws have stopped asking when I am getting one! I think we might get one for when it gets colder though but we'll see how we go. Emma was showing us a super small one she is renting, I must ask her how she got on with it.