Hello, I am new here and would like to ttc for a girl in December. I have a 4 yr old ds and a 2 yr ds both concieved on the day of o. No thoughts as to gender pref. then , just wanted a baby. Still in the same boat for ttc #3. Really just crave a new baby in my arms and and new little person in the family. DH and I would love a girl and would love to experience all the things that go along with a girl since we have two sons. This would be our last attempt, I am 36, dh is 42 and we have had our share of mc (2 blighted ovums and a molor) so.... I feel as if I must put my all into this effort. The reason to start in Dec. is my recent mc in Aug. I am hoping the 4 month wait will give us time to get healthy and practice before we dive in again.
My question is this...What is your best advice that will encourage a girl?

Any and all help is appreciated
Thank you
Lauren