First of all, welcome to the world of online ttc (trying to conceive)! Don't worry about writing things out or doing things wrong at first. It taks some time to figure it all out. The women on these boards are very supportive and are full of information. If you don't know what something stands for or means, just ask, and you will get an answer.

I think you need to go by your first actual day of flow. That's great that you got DH to agree to your plans at "just the right time" !! How luck for you!, that's wonderful! I hope that all of your symptoms are early pregnancy signs and you got super lucky this month!

I, too, have a 4 year old, he was born in November. I also have a 2 year old (January), so my next baby will be at least 3 years younger than my last this time.

Well, good luck in your ttc journey!

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