Yeah, it would bother me. But I don't think I'd say anything. It wouldn't be my place to say anything, because it's not my business. And it's not like saying anything would make any difference, anyway. I'll leave the parenting to her parents. To give her the benefit of the doubt, I wonder if this "joke" was made in some other context that we don't understant. Pretty bad joke, obviously, but maybe she didn't really mean for it to be taken seriously. Was she smoking at the time? If she was, that would bother me more than the comment she made. Nothing like a pregnant teenager smoking...