That was an interesting perspective....

Anyway, my boyfriend and I are going through something similar. I had a baby 4 months ago, and I think I can count the number of times we've had sex on both hands. I thought that we would have sex regularly as soon as I was able to, but it hasn't been that way. I would guess once a week, if I'm lucky. I've found that the more pressure I put on him to have sex, the less we have it. He says that talking about it all the time definitely doesn't help. The one thing that I haven't tried is making an effort. Sounds stupid, I know. It's just hard, because I feel like he doesn't want it and I'm forcing him. It's just that the situation is totally different now, because I'm used to him always wanting to have sex and me being the one who's not always in the mood. It definitely puts a lot of stress on our relationship.

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