We struggled with that. We had really big fertility issues, and when it came to having a second, we weren't in agreement. I prayed and prayed and thought I had an answer . . . but it wasn't in agreement with dh's answer. When it came down to it, going through more fertility treatments was going to cause a significant strain on our marriage. I prayed again and got a different answer.

It took me a long time to realize that the answer to my prayer was dependent upon my husbands feelings as well. Although us having another child wouldn't have been wrong if we had both been on board . . . we weren't.

Sorry. I'm no help.

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