Thanks so much for listening to me babble. And I totally understand how you felt when they asked about your weight. I'm at the opposite end and pretty chunky. But its in my genes. I am not as active as I could be but I'm not some fat slob who can barely breathe. I walk up to 3 miles in the morning and evening when I get in a good routine and have excellent blood pressure. I just need to be more consistent with my work outs.

Yet, in April I went to the same clinic to get inseminated and the doctor threw out there that I could wait and lose some weight first or go ahead with it. I was discouraged because he mentioned it and decided to wait till now. I knew in my heart as I left the clinic I should have done it anyway. I've gotten pregnant on my own while FAT. And my best friend is thin like you and super healthy and we've both had the same issues. We get pregnant then lose the baby so I'm not buying the fat thing.

Anyway, I had cooled down a bit until I read how your sis was in labor for 3 hours before they bothered to get with the program. So was I but after the third hour my water broke and that's what got them to help me. I was in so much pain. I wasn't prepared to deliver. I hadn't had any courses on how to push or breathe. It was too soon.

Well, I just want to say that I'm not letting any more heath care people be- little me or boss me around just because they THINK they know every thing. This is my body. I'm stepping up to the plate and owning what happens with it. I'm usually a soft spoken person but that's gotten me no where. From now on I speak my mind. Oh, and I can't believe that nurse asked if you were using protection. OOOO.....that just makes me want to throttle people. I loved it when you said you showed your chart. It sounds like she was caught off guard with how well imformed you are and just said some thing negative because she felt stupid. Who are these people and why do we have to deal with them?

Anyhoo where are you now with your tests? And when do you think you'll get to ttc?
I hope its soon. I need some good news.

Keep me posted.

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