Not to start anything, but to those of you who "don't care"... think of it this way.... when you are in bed with your DH, do you want him concentrating on you and him, or do want him thinking about some hot chic he saw naked, fantasizing about that while he's with you?? Personally, I like to think that my DH is only seeing me in his minds eye. I don't think that makes me insecure at all. I'd almost go as far as to say that society looks at it as "normal" for men to look at whatever they want... and all that does is pressure women to try to compete with what their man looks at, and it breeds insecurity. And, yes, pictures are just pictures... but then again, when I said my vows, I commited myself to him, mind, body & soul. To me that means, among other things, that I shouldn't let my thoughts wander to all the other people in this world that might look better without clothes on then he does.
If a couple is in the agreement that it isn't an issue, then it isn't. But if one person has a problem with it, the other should be considerate enough to understand that. If it's important enough to him to look at these sites, to the extent of loosing his wife, then there's were the real problem lies... in his commitment to her & his marraige. And, it goes without saying, if it expands to more then pictures, it's a whole other story... in Mama2babyboy's & mine case... it wasn't "just pictures"...


Sorry, but that's just my opinion.

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"Big" Brother Elijah