What about something like a mass/service said in the child's name or talk to a convent or something and have them devote to this child.
This just made me think of the neatest wedding gift we received... a card signed by some brothers in Chicago that said they were dedicating their daily masses that week to our blessed marriage & life together... it was very touching & I will never forget it!
Definitely helped us! Just an idea... hhmm.. our 1st baby is due in June-- prolly better get on some baptism plans for July/August huh?