God didnt need to use Marys womb, He chose to. Mary hadn't been in relations at this point so she hadn't been "tainted" by the sperm seed

God doesn't want anyones wives to be the spiritual leader. Some women are but they are earnestly praying for their husbands to assume that role. A woman can be in any position they want but it doesn't make it right and it will never been satisfying to the depths of the soul.

I get the feeling that some people feel it is demeaning not to be an equal. I suppose that is influenced by feminists and humanists. I have no problem not being equal to my husband. He isn't the same as me in any aspect except we both needed a Saviour. It doesn't make me less of a person but in a way I feel more valuable because my husband isn't complete without me. He needs my encouragement love and respect. He needs me to honor him and help him. I need him in big ways too. Together we are completed, we compliment each other but I am not his equal. He is my leader, my guide, my best friend, my confidont (sp) He makes the decisions and asks for my opinion but the final decision is his and I dont try to question it. I used to and life was unhappy. If I was his equal then I would have equal say and we would be out of balance. God designed marriage in the most perfect way, but it through the foolishness of pride and lack of bibilical understanding that women try to be where they dont belong and it keeps people from where God wants them to be. Gods marriage is the same blue print for everyone but people really need to stop trying to change where the walls go, It creates a less than perfect home and the foundation isn't always stable either.

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Amanda: Mom of 5 beautiful kiddos. We are a non-vaxing, unschooling, homechurching, and farming family. We are unique and love every minute of it

Expecting #6 on June 28th 2007