Hi I was just in the neighborhood. And I just had an ectopic in Aug of last year and I'm now 13wks preg. It is difficult to wait until you can see something. But for me the difference was that the twinges that I got when I had the ectopic was not twinges at all, it was pain. I did not have tubal rupture so I can only imagine it's worse for those who did. When I first found out all I did have was twinges not really bad pain. And I was soooooo much more sick than when I had the ectopic. It's different for different people. Just as long as it's not severe pain, with or without bleeding, you should be okay. I'm not going to tell you not to stress, because it's impossible, but I hope that you cope one day at a time!