The relationship you are in seems very unhealthy for yourself and your child. This man is obviously not commited to you or your child if he will not even admit that you exist. The way he is treating you is extremely disrespectful. I know this must be hard to hear, but unless he steps forward and declares to the world that you are his s/o and the most important person in his life you need to move on and find someone who will treat you with some dignity.

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