Dixie, you ex and his current wife have absolutely NO rights to see your kids. I wouldn't feel bad about it either- you get to make all the rules, and he can either follow those rules to the letter, or he just won't see the kids at all. He gave up his right to have absolutely any say. His current wife is totally out of her freaking mind thinking that SHE has ANY right to your kids. A judge would laugh in their faces if they brought this matter to court.

Stick to your guns. You have to do what is best for you and your children, and your family. And YOU get total say in what is best for them.

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