Ruth, a bit of both I think!!! They can go from being the best of friends to hating each other!! I've just arranged for them to go to tea with school friends seperately - they seem really confused to be going to someones house without the other!! I'm trying to let them know that they are individuals, and do not have to do everything together.
How is your little girl adapting to the idea of a brother/sister on the way?? I can't wait to tell my two - they keep asking if they can have a baby brother/sister - I'm sure they won't be as excited when it arrives!!!

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Rebecca

DS Oliver - 21 Jan 2000
DS Benjamin - 21 Jan 2000
DD Lucy - 5 Aug 2006