My name is Elisha, and I consider myself to be an APer, even though I don't have all the necessary "requirements." I am going to school, so DD gets pumped milk while I am there, and I was lucky enough to find an AP babysitter. She has gotten some formula, but only while I was hospitalized and when I can't pump enough for her while she is at the babysitters. She shall wean herself, no matter how long it takes. I did vax, and I don't use cloth diapers, and she eats jarred food for the most part. However, I am ATTACHED to my daughter (in the most sensitive way because of some past experiences I have had), and I won't ever raise a harsh hand to her, and I will wait until she is old enough for discipline to give it to her, and I will always affirm her, even when she comes home when she is sixteen and has blue hair (humph!).