speaking of family bed, just today Willow was grumpy (i think she might be starting to teethe) so i laid her in the bed for a nap with me. when my husband is at work, she always naps with me in the "big bed" i half-slept while she chewed on my fingers, then she fell asleep i can't imagine if i'd had to put her down for a nap in a separate place, so grumpy like that!