Maybe the concept of graduating just has him a little shaken right now. Kind of like a midlife crisis kind of thing. He has to decide what he wants to do and where to go. I do hope that he went to his appt. Please let us know if he did. Have you told him that you dont mind waiting out to find out his decision and pour out your heart to him about how much you love him? Maybe he needs that confirmation that you really care about him. Also let him know that you will do whatever it will take to make your marriage work. The first 0-2 years was roughest for us. 1 1/2 weeks from now we will be having our 4th anniversary. if you can make it past those first few years- and you grow and learn as you go along- it gets a lot bette.r I hope that he will keep with the counseling and that you two stay married a long time and raise your baby together and have a happy family

Amanda

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Formerly~Stressedmama/Amanda81~

Amanda-Happily married to James (2/01)
Mom to Sarah 5/98, Mikayla 5/01, Tyler 10/02 and Noah 10/03
and expecting a surprise August 2005.