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Old 06-13-2004, 10:58 AM
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Why is my baby crying? - on GeoParent.... also

Will I spoil my baby by answering her cries?


This reassuring guide to the many causes of infant crying enables parents both to make their babies happier and to cope better with their own emotions.

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A quote from the article:

"Will you spoil your baby by carrying her too much, by answering her cries too quickly, or by getting into the habit of going to her when she wakes up over and over during the night? A lot of parents worry about this -- especially when their babies are extra-demanding... Research has shown that parents who are the most afraid of spoiling their babies are the most likely to produce children who act spoiled. By taking longer to answer, these parents get accustomed to the crying, and so distance themselves from their babies even more. The baby's trust in her caregivers begins to erode, which makes her quicker to cry and harder to soothe. Eventually she grows into a clingy, overly demanding, and insecure toddler."
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